New Paradigm Intimacy
Awaken the aliveness within
Welcome to The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy, an advanced immersion into business and coaching certification for sex and relating.
There has never been a better time to follow your dreams and make a difference in the world by just being you.
The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy helps women step through past conditioning and into the role of a lifetime. Qualifying them to not only help others but also create cultural change on our planet.
Hi, I’m Victoria Redbard.
I was 17 when it first entered my mind that I wanted to be some sort of sex coach, helping and inspiring people to access more of who they wanted to be. At the time I didn’t know what that meant, it wasn’t a job as far as I knew, so I let it pass.
Fast forward 8 years, I’d just got out of an abusive relationship and was lost. I strapped my backpack on and travelled Central and South America with the desire to find my souls calling.
After a few tantra trainings and an epic Ayahausca journey that I synchronistically won through a Facebook advert, I came home to myself. Returning to Australia, I was shocked at how quickly everything fell into place. I learnt how to be the transmission of change, people were over the moon with what they were achieving…and they still are.
I spent the next few years tracking down the pioneers of tantra, studying with long standing institutes and seeking mentorship from the leaders who brought tantra and sacred sexuality to the mainstream. This lead me to finding my own pathway to embodiment through the realms of Self Pleasure. My group workshops got bigger and my one on one work got more frequent as I began to collect research in this pathway of transformation that had given me and my clients more power, freedom, money and love than we’d ever known.
With the research I had gathered I saw my modality come to life. A pathway of self actualisation, embodiment that not only helped men and women discover more pleasure, bliss and happiness but had them open up their lives to transform in other areas.
Connection to self
This New Paradigm is meant for everyone. It is returning us to our deepest inner knowing. A wisdom of connection we have somehow forgotten. A way of living that prioritises love, freedom and happiness and encourages the conversations of how this can come to fruition.
With a variety of maps, theories, somatic practices and the principles of tantra this modality birthed into the world. With my local community on the Gold Coast Australia experiencing it first hand, I saw people of all ages come together and work through the conditioning of their past to create a new way of having sisterhood, brotherhood, romantic connections and tribe. This new way brought abundance, aliveness, joy, connection, the ability to go to the depths of the darkness together and rise stronger. This is how community builds society, and a cultural shift occurs. When a cultural shift occurs we see a world where rape, molestation and boundaries being overstepped is no longer a common occurrence. We see a world where sexual energy comes out of the shadows and into consciousness. We see a world where both men and women are not encouraged by the media to be ‘sexy’ they are encouraged to be ‘embodied’.
My mission is to see men and women step into their bodies and out of their heads. Through my research it is clear that our ability to stay in our bodies through our emotion and thought processes allows us to thrive in life. Sexual violation and shame are two major factors to why people leave their bodies and go into fight, flight, freeze or befriend. When we are in this space we are not connected to our essence and therefore can not have our boundaries or feel empowered to live a life of aliveness. When sexual energy is no longer taboo we can normalise the affects it may have on our behaviour and this awareness can save lives, families and marriages from ending. This modality is the first step to seeing sexual health plans becoming as common as mental health plans. The industry of sex & relating coaching is growing rapidly and is in need of more educated, qualified coaches to create the safety needed for everyone to feel free.
The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy invites you to come home to your body and experience the endless love that was here all along.
Love & Pleasure
The 3 Month Self Pleasure Graduate Programme
What will you be able to do with this certification?
As a Self Pleasure graduate you’ll be trained to understand how sexual energy works in the human body. Utilising practices over processes with yourself and clients to see rapid change in awareness and ability to navigate lives struggles.
New Paradigm Intimacy offers a wealth of somatic practices to guide clients through sexual dysfunction, sexual healing and pleasure expansion.
You’ll confidently be able to address the psychosocial-sexual issues both men and women suffer from such as loss of libido, numbness, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm and disconnection from their partner.
This programme gives you the ability to work with men and women individually as well as couples. Coaching can take place in person or online. The modules will include marketing strategies for sharing your work with the world.
What is the Self Pleasure Graduate Programme?
This programme is a personal journey and philosophy that not only offers skills to work with clients but also offers a deep comprehensive guide into understanding your own sexual energy and life blocks.
Within 12 modules we will share:
Weekly video content
Weekly Self Practices
Maps and theory
Embodiment journeys through self touch
Weekly Zoom calls for emotional support and questions
Practices to work on with clients
Affiliation membership to Yoni Pleasure Palace 4
Week One - Relating to Love
Healing the heart
Reconnecting the heart with the sex
Opening from pain and violation
Awareness of habitual sexual behaviour
Empathy and emitting your own frequency
Wild Love as a principle
Week Two - Pleasure Anatomy
Awaken from numbness
Sensuality as a stress relief
Understanding what blocks orgasm
Understanding what induces orgasm
Week Three - Psychosocial Sexual Issues
Reconnection in relating
Relating to the inner child
Map of erotic innocence
Week Four - Therapeutic Presence
Active Vs Reactive
Non bias space holding
Presenting reality Vs Actual reality
Creating a journey
Week Five - Practice over Process
Commitment to congruency
Week Six - Preparing the Nervous System for Pleasure
Tutorial on Using Crystal and Glass Wands
Use of Kundalini in Self Pleasure
Understanding how stress presents in both men and women
Week 7 - Relationship Reset
Connection to self
Boundaries and Consent: verbal vs energetic
Personal Vs Transpersonal Relating
Week 8 - Sexual Healing
Trauma Release Exercises
Rape and Molestation
Pain, Burning, Numbness
Week 9 - Sexual Dysfunction
Struggle to Orgasm
Struggle to Ejaculate
Week 10 - Pleasure Expansion
Opening the body through the power centres
Energetics of Orgasm
Pathways to Orgasm
Ejacualtion Control for men
Life Force Energy Week 11 - Business and Structure
Rules and Regulations
Week 12 - Cultural Change
Using sexual energy in every area of your life
Innocence of Eros
Navigating sexual exploration for the younger generation
Creating Impact with your personal story